#TalkTuesday with Memkoh: Sex in a Marriage

My friend read this article where a man blamed his wife for their sex life being boring. http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2015/may/18/my-wife-is-boring-in-bed-dont-find-her-sexually-attractive?CMP=fb_gu In your own opinion, what is the importance of sex in a marriage and how can both partners play a role in making the sex better or more consistent, before and after the children arrive?